Fifty Ways to Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Unleashing your Erotic Desires
Sex shouldn’t be satisfying, it should be mindblowing.With this simple and accessible guide to BDSM (bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism) you can turn every night into an erotic fantasy.Sex should set you on fire, so that an unrecognisable shade of yourself comes alive in the smoulder. That’s the Fifty Shades of Grey philosophy – and if you, like the millions of other readers around the world, are ready to free your inner goddess, unlock your sex life and discover new heights of pleasure, Fifty Ways to Play is the key you need.From turning your bedroom into a ‘Red Room of Pleasure and Pain’ to exploring the fine art of Japanese rope bondage, these 50 edgy and erotic adventures make incredible sex incredibly easy. This is BDSM – for nice people.Husband and wife team Debra and Don Macleod, whose previous books have been awarded ‘Best in Bed’ by Women’s Health Magazine, show you how to perform the sexual acts that others have only read about – acts that will form incredible bonds between you and your partner, that will allow you to connect for the first time or reconnect as never before – and will blow your mind every time. In short, Fifty Ways to Play will revolutionise your sex life.
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50 Ways to Play
A Beginner's Guide to Unleashing your Erotic Desires
By Debra and Don Macleod
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Tantric Sex Deck
The Fantasy Sex Deck: 50 Erotic Role-Plays for Adventurous Couples
Contents
Also from Debra and Don Macleod
1. A Red Room of Pleasure & Pain
2. Sexual Domination & Submission
3. Delayed Sexual Gratification
4. Behavioral Restraint & Mind Games
5. Bedroom Bondage & Restraint
18. Glass Toys & Temperature Play
27. Rough Sex & Force Fantasies
36. Sexual Positions & Thrusting Techniques
38. BDSM & Cunnilingus, Part I
40. BDSM & Cunnilingus, Part II
48. A BDSM (Romantic?) Getaway
Sex is supposed to pack a punch. It’s supposed to take you off guard, make you hold your breath for what might come next, gasp with discovery, quicken your pulse and consume you, mind, body and soul. Sexual desire should make you say and do things that you would never normally say or do, and the severity of physical sensations should paralyze you. Sex should set you on fire, so that an unrecognizable shade of yourself comes alive in the smolder.
Take this pop quiz to see whether your sex life is as body-and-mind-blowing as it should or could be.
Pop Quiz
1. Are you physically aroused by the intensity of your partner’s desire for you?
2. Do you find yourself fantasizing about unorthodox sex acts with your partner?
3. Do you feel physically and emotionally exhausted after sex?
4. Is erotic desire a prevailing theme in your relationship?
5. Do you occasionally feel (pleasant) pain or (exciting) fear during sex?
6. Do you regularly lose yourself in erotic role-playing, restraint or rough sex?
7. Do you imagine being “used” by your partner during sex, or using him/her?
8. Do you use a variety of sexual aids to intensely stimulate all your senses during sex?
9. Does your partner sometimes seem like a different person during sex? Do you?
10. Do you revel in the sexual anticipation of what your partner will do next?
If you or your partner answered “no” to any of these questions, you’re not alone. Many couples feel that sex has lost its erotic impact and, if you’re one of them, it’s time to add a few kinky weapons to your after-dark arsenal. Actually, forget “a few” and add lots of them. Moderation is for sexual puritans. There are fifty thrills and chills in this book, boldly borrowed from the world of BDSM—Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism. These edgy ideas are guaranteed to get the juices flowing and the nerves firing like never before. And despite their deviant reputation, they are essential elements of a healthy sex life, even for nice people like you.
For some reason, romance and gentle lovemaking have a monopoly on mainstream sex. Of course, sex should be loving and meaningful. But that doesn’t mean you always have to stare deeply into each other’s eyes or move as one in the missionary position. Consensual rough-and-tumble sex, with a dose of high-sensory kink and BDSM for good measure, is noticeably absent from many couples’ sex lives, and many partners are unhappy with the vacancy. They complain of bland, routine sex lives and crave something harder and faster, something that consumes them with desire, excitement and exhilaration. They want something that injects an erotic buzz into their everyday life and makes them long for nightfall.
Gentle caresses and candlelight can’t always do that. That is why I never suggest romance movies to “spice up” a love life. I can’t think of anything more predictable. Instead, I recommend horror films. They get the blood pumping and the adrenaline flowing. They make you hold your breath and wait for the ax to fall. They bring energy and excitement into your evening. Think of this book as a horror flick as opposed to a romantic “chick flick.” You and your partner can enjoy it together, without any risk of falling asleep halfway through.
