Guided By Angels: Part 3 of 3: There Are No Goodbyes, My Tour of the Spirit World

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11. The Commonality of Grief

12. Exploring Our Communication with Guides

13. Free Will in Practice

14. Learning from Experience

15. Love Never Fails

16. About Brian

17. There Are No Goodbyes

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One of the things that formed part of the religious teachings of my youth was the fact that, when people died, they lost contact with their relatives and friends on earth. They waited around to be judged (at least, as I imagined it) in a sort of comatose state until the Last Day, when the sheep will be separated from the goats, as it were. I don’t know why the poor goats were selected as the symbolic representatives of those souls unfortunate enough to be consigned to eternal punishment.

I was musing on all that because Margaret Anna had mentioned that she would like to discuss further how souls in spirit continue to interact with people on earth.

She said, ‘As we’ve seen, there are different levels of contact. Guides, for example, have agreements with those whom they guide, and are always instantly available to them. The contact is more sporadic where other souls are concerned.’

She went on to tell me a story about continuing contact, concerning a woman called Jane who is another of Margaret Anna’s ‘charges’.

Jane is a woman in her 30s, happily married, with three children, aged six, four and two. The household revolves around her, and she looks after all the details of the domestic scene with superb efficiency.

She had launched a promising career as an interior designer, but she has put it on hold until the children are older. Her husband, Oliver, is a partner in a busy firm of accountants. Life is moving along smoothly and harmoniously for the family.

Jane has never suffered from anything other than minor illnesses, such as colds. When she begins to experience a nagging pain in her stomach, she ignores it for some time. She doesn’t even mention it to Oliver. But it’s not going away, so she decides to go to the family doctor. Because Jane trivialises the pain, the doctor doesn’t take it too seriously and gives her a prescription for painkillers. He suggests that she return for a further consultation if the pain continues.

Jane experiences only minimal relief from the tablets. She goes back to the doctor, who arranges for her to go to hospital for tests. At this stage she feels she has to tell Oliver. Not surprisingly, Oliver is worried, but he convinces himself that because Jane has always seemed indestructible, the tests won’t show anything serious.

Oliver’s optimism proves to be unfounded. Jane is riddled with cancer. The medical prognosis is that she has, at the most, three months to live. And so it proves. The grief of the family knows no bounds as Jane’s body gives up the struggle, and they’re left helplessly wondering how they’re going to manage without her.

Jane herself is devastated. She had tried to hold on, but even her powerful will had no chance against the cancer. When she leaves her body, she’s in a state of utter distress at being separated from her family. She also carries the burden of their overwhelming sadness. She’s around them all the time, but they’re so numbed by their grief that they’re not aware of her. She sees Oliver doing his best to organise things so that life can go on for the family in some fashion.

Margaret Anna knows that there’s no point in trying to reach Jane while she’s so enmeshed in her own grief and that of her family. In our time, there’s an interval of nearly a year before Jane is ready to come to terms, even to a minor extent, with her new state. She has begun to relax a little as she sees that Oliver and the children have found a way of coping. She’s had many bouts of exasperation because she’s not there to sort things out when they get into a muddle, as they often do. No matter how hard she tries, she can’t get through to any of them. However, they manage, somehow, to get by.

Margaret Anna has enlisted the help of Jane’s father, Daniel, who died when Jane was only 15. They had loved each other very much. As Jane begins to relax, she becomes aware of her father. She’s overjoyed to see him and they have a loving reunion. He talks to her and persuades her to go with him, constantly reassuring her that she’ll continue to be able to be around her family.

They have arrived at a minor breakthrough. With the help of Daniel and other souls, Margaret Anna is able to show Jane that she can mind her family much more effectively by letting them go a little. The guides illustrate to her that her unbroken connection with her family is confusing them, because it sets up a vibration around them that they don’t understand. It’s a heavy vibration caused by her distress at her separation from them, and her inability to be physically there to take care of both them and all the details involved in managing the household. The guides arrange for her to meet other parents who have had to leave their families in somewhat similar situations. They invite her to join them in a cooperative grouping, whose aim is to be able to help the families they have left on earth, while finding ways to make progress on their own evolution. Soon she realises that she has immediate access to experts in all sorts of fields.