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‘This book is incredibly inspirational. A feel-good, call-to-action to be kind!’
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David R. Hamilton, Ph.D., author and international speaker
‘Kindness is the foundation for a happier world. This wonderful book is packed with inspiring and practical ways that we can all help to spread more ripples of kindness and happiness in our daily lives. Highly recommended.’
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Dr Mark Williamson, director of Action for Happiness
‘To me kindness is giving selflessly. It’s to give with no expectation. A smile, a helping hand, a warm gesture … just because your heart desires to do a good deed for no other reason than to make someone happy. 52 Lives is amazing, selfless and truly wonderful.’
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Gemma Oaten, actor
‘Kindness is overflowing with inspiring messages to help us all remember the importance of being kind. Whether you’re young or old, these are inspiring reminders of how we can make society better for all of us.’
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Bullying UK, part of Family Lives
‘I was always bought up to show loving kindness towards others. To help others, like 52 Lives does, is a selfless act. It doesn’t cost anything to be kind and it can mean so much – a simple smile costs nothing.’
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Duncan James, singer from Blue, actor and presenter
‘In a world divided by terror and fear, I genuinely believe that kindness can bring us together. Jaime and the light she brings to this funny old planet is very much needed.’
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Emily Coxhead, founder of The Happy Newspaper
Dedication
For my three kind little beating hearts, Abbey, Max and Joseph
And for Greig, my love and the kindest person I know
Foreword
David R. Hamilton, Ph.D., author of The Five Side Effects of Kindness
Kindness is the glue that holds society together. It is the essence of beauty. It brings smiles to faces, lightens our burdens, creates friendships, transforms people and situations. It can make a day memorable. It can be the answer to someone’s prayers. This is how I see Jaime Thurston’s work with 52 Lives. It is heart-warming to see how she makes a difference in so many people’s lives.
And I mean heart-warming in two ways. First, in the sense that it makes us feel uplifted and inspired. Second, in that observing or learning about kindness does create a warming sensation in the heart. Kindness produces oxytocin and nitric oxide, two substances that directly affect our arteries, softening them, dilating them, reducing blood pressure, clearing them of free radicals, and increasing blood flow to the heart.
It’s part of what social psychologist, Jonathan Haidt, calls ‘elevation’, which we feel when we’re being kind, receiving kindness, or witnessing kindness. This also inspires us to pay kindnesses forward. This in turn sets in motion the well-known ripple effect of kindness, where one act touches many more lives than just the original recipient.